With whom, where, when do you feel love?

My idea about a relationship used to be simply: two people who are in love. In reality, my self- centred way of loving my husband was to cherish the love for him I felt inside. Becoming aware, that I had to learn to share and express love, had a major impact on me. At 40+ I felt stuck in my work. I couldn’t change jobs, because I was in a difficult situation at home, and I needed the security and the money. I chose to put more heart in my work. It felt much better and it worked wonders. In everyday life I practiced acting and choosing love above fear, anger, and other opposites, each time. Later on, I chose being happy and spreading love as my life mission. I sought ways to express this silently, such as thinking loving statements, like: everyone is important, when I was with someone. Over the years, practicing love-in-action has become a foundation for my life. It’s a love that is unburdened, free, unconditional. I really enjoy my simple daily practices, like saying: hi to everybody I come across, or looking them in the eyes, smiling.